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MikeTheBear wrote:
What I disagree with was the statement (I believe it was made by Zeb) that those who don't believe in God or who perhaps question the existence of a God automatically worship money, sex, themselves, drugs, or whatever.
I should have been more clear on that point. What I was saying was that we (as human beings) have a certain capacity to worship. And if you remember I used the word "worship" as meaning "extra devotion to something". I never said that if you do not worship God that you automatically worship money, cars, boats etc. But there is a tendency to direct that "devotion" to other areas of your life, many of which are not very healthy.
In my case, nothing could be further from the truth. In fact, if you didn't know that I had questioned the existence of God, you'd think I was a practicing Christian: I'm going on 20 years of marriage to the same woman, I've never cheated, I love my child and try to spend as much time as I can with her, I do volunteer work, and I've never done drugs and don't plan to. And on some issues I agree with the conservatives: a free market economy is good, high taxes are bad, and socialized medicine is a bad idea. To be fair, I was raised Catholic, so that probably had some influence.
Don't underestimate the early influence of Christian living on your current way of thinking. While one may not believe in God if you practice living a good life you can reap the rewards of that life. Of course that is merely the here and now.
However, I now do these things because I believe they have intrinsic value, not because I fear punishment from an invisible being.
You are a bit confused my friend, Christians don't do good things because they're afraid of God.
As it says in the book of James:
2:18 "But someone will say you have faith I have deeds, show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by what I do."
As a Christian I want to help when I can and do the right thing, it has nothing to do with fear, to allege such a thing is simply inaccurate.
In fact, this is how I try to maintain control over my life. Having an affair and doing drugs make life more complicated. If I want to maintain control over my life, I want to keep things as simple as possible. If I don't, and things go bad, I can't rely on some invisible deity to help me out.
This just shows that you're a smart guy. When Christians sin by having extra marital affairs etc. they know that they too will have to suffer the consequences. God won't swoop down and rescue any of us when we behave like that. However, we do know that there is forgiveness. If you think that Christians feel that they'll be bailed out by God if they cheat on their wives you are once again quite mistaken.
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